What is the one
possession you value most? Is it your house, your car, a pet? Is it a photo
album or scrapbook that carries your memories? Whatever this most favored
possession is, how does it compare with the way you value your life? I imagine
you would give away every possession you have before you would give away your
life? Yet, that is exactly what God calls upon us to do. He wants us to give
our lives away. It is precisely in giving our lives away that we discover what
real living is all about. Jesus said, “For whoever wants to save his life will
lose it, but whoever loses his life for me will save it.” (Luke 9:24)
Last Sunday we
considered how we can give ourselves away by giving of our time. Today I invite
you to consider how you can give yourself away by giving of your talents, those
unique abilities with which you have been endowed by God. Paul addresses this
topic in Romans 12:3-8. Listen for God’s word to you from this passage….
For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to
think of yourself more highly than you ought to think, but to think with sober
judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. 4 For as in one body we have
many members, and not all the members have the same function, 5 so we, who are many, are
one body in Christ, and individually we are members one of another. 6 We have gifts that differ
according to the grace given to us: prophecy, in proportion to faith; 7 ministry, in ministering;
the teacher, in teaching; 8 the exhorter, in exhortation; the giver, in generosity; the
leader, in diligence; the compassionate, in cheerfulness.
Paul tells us
several things about our talents, or gifts, in this passage. The first thing that Paul suggests is that
we need to know ourselves and our gifts.
Paul indicates it
is God’s grace that enables us to see ourselves in the correct light. The
Jerusalem Bible translates verse 3 as follows: “In light of the grace I have
received I want to urge each one among you not to exaggerate his real
importance.” God’s grace, God’s undeserved favor toward us in Christ, is what
enables us to view ourselves realistically. God’s grace empowers us to look at
ourselves without pretense.
Paul says, don’t
think of yourself too highly. Billy Graham once observed, “The smallest package
I ever saw was a man wrapped up wholly in himself.”
Thankfully, God
places people in our lives who bring us back down to earth. The head of a large
company was waiting in line to get his driver’s license renewed and his wife
was standing with him. He was frustrated at how long it was taking and so he
grumbled to his wife, “Don’t they know who I am?” To which his wife replied,
“Yes, you’re the plumber’s son who got lucky.”
On the other
hand, we also need to be careful of evaluating ourselves too lowly. Pericles
once said, “Your great glory is not to be inferior to what God has made you.”
God’s grace
allows us to see ourselves realistically. God’s grace sets us free to realize
that we have nothing to prove and nothing to lose. Paul suggests that the more
faith we have, the more we will be able to accept who we are, in light of God’s
grace.
Now, part of
knowing ourselves is discovering our God-given gifts and talents. Some people
ask what the difference is between a gift and a talent. Not much really. Both
gifts and talents come from God. Everyone has a talent of one sort or another,
and every talent is given by God the creator to his creatures. However, God is
also our redeemer in Christ. When we come to Christ in faith, we receive
spiritual gifts through the Holy Spirit, by virtue of our union with Christ.
But conversion seems to respect the raw materials we start with. Conversion
might turn a Saul into a Paul, but it is not likely to turn Lady Gaga into
Thomas Aquinas.
Thus, part of
knowing ourselves is discovering our God given gifts and/or talents. This
involves finding out what we are good at, what our strengths are. Peter Drucker
once said, “Few of us really know our strengths. The great teachers, the great
leaders, recognize strengths and focus on them.”
I had a wonderful
speech teacher in seminary. Rather than focusing on our weaknesses she focused
on our strengths. Instead of saying, “That was really bad. Stop doing that,”
she would say, “Why don’t you try adding this to your sermon?”
Fred Craddock
once said, “If you discover your strength and work from there, some weaknesses
become loveable idiosyncrasies.”
But how do we
discover what our gifts and talents are? One way to find out is by taking a
spiritual gifts survey, which is something we offer to everyone who becomes a
member of our church.
Another way to
discover your gifts is to ask yourself: who are my heroes? Often, without
realizing it, we admire people who have similar gifts and talents to our own.
We are drawn to such people and want to be like them because God has endowed us
with similar gifts, though perhaps in a different measure.
Ask other people
to tell you what they see as your strengths. Often others see our strengths
more clearly than we see them ourselves.
Another way to
discover your gifts is by simply trying your hand at different things. When I
was in high school, my parents encouraged me to try out different activities or
areas of service at school and at church. Consequently, I tried out for the
school play and got the lead part. Drama became a lifelong love of mine. Some
things I have learned through the dramatic arts have stood me in good stead for
life. Another thing I tried doing was teaching a fifth-grade Sunday school
class at my church. That first step led me to a lifelong involvement in
ministry.
Kent Hughes has
said, “There are too many needful things to be done to wait around for someone
to feel gifted.” That’s true. There are so many needs in the church and in the
community. Why not find a need and fill it? In so doing, you will discover your
God-given gifts and talents. But also remember what Doris Freese has said,
“Gifts are not necessarily mature at the time of discovery… they are developed
through practice.
A second point
Paul makes in Romans 12 is that we each
have unique functions and gifts. Paul uses the image of a body. He says
that the church is like a body and Christ is the head. Just as each member of
our physical bodies have unique functions, so also each member of the church
has a unique function and gift. “We have different gifts, according to the
grace given us.”
Max DePree has
written, “A whale is as unique as a cactus. But don’t ask a whale to survive
Death Valley. We all have special gifts. Where we use them and how determines
whether we actually complete something.”
I believe God
wants us to discover the unique gifts that he has given us so we can be set
free from trying to be good at everything. Max Lucado has said, “Someone can be
a good third baseman, but not a good pitcher. If I’m called to play third base,
I’m going to be the best third baseman I can be. It was a liberating moment
when I realized I didn’t have to be great at everything.” That is an
interesting statement coming from a popular author and pastor of one of the
largest churches in the country. Max Lucado has found two things he is good at.
He has focused on those things and others have thereby benefited. We need to do
the same in our own little corners of the world.
The third point
Paul makes is that we and our spiritual
gifts belong to all the other members of the body. “So in Christ we who are
many form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.” This means that
God wants us to work together as a team. God has given us gifts for the benefit
of the whole church.
CBS radio newsman
Charles Osgood once told the story of two ladies who lived in a convalescent
center. Each had suffered an incapacitating stroke. Margaret’s stroke left her
left side restricted, while Ruth’s stroke damaged her right side. Both of these
ladies were accomplished pianists but had given up hope of ever playing again.
The director of
the center sat them down at a piano and encouraged them to play together,
Margaret playing the right hand and Ruth playing the left. They did, and a
beautiful relationship developed.
What a picture of
the church’s need to work together! What one member cannot do alone, two or
more can do together—working in harmony.
Because each
member of the body of Christ belongs to all the others it also means that each
member is important. In March of 1981, President Ronald Reagan was shot by John
Hinckley, Jr., and was hospitalized for several weeks. Although Reagan was the
nation’s chief executive, his hospitalization had little impact on the nation’s
activity. Government continued.
On the other
hand, suppose the garbage collectors in this country went on strike, as they
did in Philadelphia at one time. Decaying trash piled up and soon became a
health hazard. A three-week nationwide garbage collection strike would paralyze
the country. Who is more important—the President or a garbage collector?
In the body of
Christ, seemingly insignificant people are urgently needed. As Paul reminds us
in 1 Corinthians 12:21-22, “The head cannot say to the feet, ‘I don’t need
you!’ On the contrary, those parts of the boy that seem to be weaker are
indispensable.” You and your gifts belong to Christ and to his body. You are
needed!
The fourth point
Paul makes is that our gifts come from
God. “We have different gifts, according to the grace given us.”
The spiritual
gifts and talents that we have are gifts of God’s grace. Grace is prior to
gifting. In fact, the Greek word for gifts, charismata,
comes from the root word charis,
which means grace.
Ben Patterson has
written, “Whatever we have, we have because God in his grace and generosity has
given it to us. When we realize this, there comes into our lives a joyful
gratitude for what we do have, and we are freed from resentment and anxiety
over what we don’t have.” We need to realize that our gifts and talents come
from God and therefore we need to thank him.
A couple of weeks
ago, we went on vacation to Cape Cod. While we were there, my mother was
celebrating her 89th birthday in California. So I decided to buy her
a birthday gift from The 1856 Country Store in Centerville, a shop with which
she was familiar. I purchased a candle in a beautiful china container decorated
like a bird cage with a bird painted on it. As a collector of decorator birds,
I knew she would like it. When we returned to Stowe, I sent the gift to her.
But then I didn’t hear anything from her for over a week. Finally, I called and
asked if she had received my gift. She said, “No”. But then she asked my
brother about it and he reminded her that she had left a box sitting on her
walker out in the garage. He quickly went and got the box, my mother opened it,
and she was delighted with the gift.
Now, I understand
how my mother, at 89 years of age, is getting forgetful about some things. But
I am not sure we always have such a valid excuse when we forget to thank God
for the gifts he has given us. Just like any giver of a gift, God wants to know
that we not only have received his gifts, but that we are enjoying them,
thankful for them, and putting them to good use.
We need to
recognize that our spiritual gifts and talents come from God. We need to thank
him for them. And we need to offer those gifts back up to him in service to his
church and the world.
The final point
Paul makes in this passage is: whatever
gift you have, use it for the common good. We need to not only discover the
gifts that God has given us, but we also need to use them in the way he wants
us to.
The Stradivari
Society of Chicago performs and important role in the music world. The society
entrusts expensive violins into the hands of world-class violin players who
could never afford them on their own.
Top-flight
violins made by seventeenth and eighteenth century masters like Antonio
Stradivari produce an incomparably beautiful sound and sell for millions of
dollars each. Their value continues to climb, making such violins highly
attractive to investors. But “great violins are not like great works of art,”
writes music critic John van Rhein. “They were never meant to be hung on a wall
or locked up under glass. Any instrument will lose its tone if it isn’t played
regularly; conversely, an instrument gains in value the more it is used.”
Thus, it is that
those who own the world’s greatest violins are looking for first-rate violinists
to play them. The Stradivari Society brings them together, making sure that the
instruments are preserved and cared for. One further requirement made by
investors in such violins: the musician will give the patron at least two
command performances per year.
Like the
Stradivari Society, God also entrusts exquisite “violins” into the care of
others. He gives us spiritual gifts and talents of great value, that remain his
property. He wants them used. He delights to hear beautiful music from our
lives. And he wants us to play for him.
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