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Two People at Prayer



According to the Pew Research Center, 55% of Americans say they pray every day, while 21% say they pray weekly or monthly and 23% say they seldom or never pray. Even among those who are religiously unaffiliated, 20% say they pray daily. Women (64%) are more likely than men (46%) to pray every day. And Americans ages 65 and older are far more likely than adults under 30 to say they pray daily (65% vs. 41%). 45% of Americans – and a majority of Christians (55%) – say they rely a lot on prayer and personal religious reflection when making major life decisions. The same survey found that 63% of Christians in the U.S. say praying regularly is an essential part of their Christian identity.[1]

I wonder: what is prayer like for you and how does it figure in your life? In our Gospel reading for today, Jesus tells a story about two people at prayer. Listen for God’s word to you from Luke 18:9-14…

He also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous and regarded others with contempt: “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee, standing by himself, was praying thus, ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other people: thieves, rogues, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week; I give a tenth of all my income.’ But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even look up to heaven, but was beating his breast and saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’ I tell you, this man went down to his home justified rather than the other; for all who exalt themselves will be humbled, but all who humble themselves will be exalted.”

Devout Jews who lived in or near Jerusalem in the first century had the option of attending three prayer times daily at the Temple: one at 9 am, one at noon, and the third at 3 pm. They believed prayer might be especially effective if offered in the Temple. Thus, many went to the Temple in Jerusalem at these hours to pray.

Personally, I doubt that the place where we pray makes any difference whatsoever to the effectiveness of prayer before God. If it helps us to pray in one place vs. another, great. But I doubt that it makes any difference to God. We can pray in church. We can pray at home. We can pray on the golf course. We can pray in the car. We can pray atop the highest mountain or in the lowest valley. 1 John 5:14 says, “if we ask anything according to God’s will, he hears us.” To me, that’s what counts, not the location of our prayers, but the intention of our prayers.

However, in his parable, Jesus tells us about two people who went up to the Temple to pray. One is a Pharisee. As we have talked about before, the Pharisees were one of a few different Jewish sects that existed in the first century. They were teachers of the law and believed in following the law according to very specific guidelines handed down by the Rabbis over the centuries.

A more literal, word-for-word, translation of the Greek would describe this particular Pharisee in this way: “The Pharisee standing these things to himself prayed.”

Jesus is telling us that despite the fact that this Pharisee addresses God in his prayer, he is really talking to himself.

Now, we have all probably had the experience of feeling like our prayers do not rise any higher than the ceiling. Sometimes we wonder: “Is anyone really listening to our prayers on the other end?” That is an understandable experience.

But the Pharisee is not in that position. He does not seem to have any doubt about his own righteousness or that God will hear him. He is overly confident in his relationship with God, if we can even call it a relationship. Most people I meet these days are the opposite. They do not feel confident at all in their relationship with God, and in fact need to have their confidence built up.

However, I have also found that many people these days are confused about what prayer is. Many things may go by the name of prayer which really are not prayer at all, at least from a biblical perspective.

Someone once described a certain preacher’s prayer as “the most eloquent prayer ever offered to a Boston audience.” Such communication is not really prayer at all because it is directed to the wrong conversational partner.

At rock bottom, prayer is not talking to ourselves, or a preacher talking to an audience or even a preacher talking to a congregation. Rather, prayer is a conversation with God.

But the Pharisee is not really talking to God. He is merely rehearsing his own virtues out loud.

The Pharisee’s main problem is that he compares himself to others. He says, “I am not like other people: thieves, rogues, adulterers, or even like this tax collector.”

Dag Hammarskjöld, the second Secretary-General of the United Nations, once wrote in his book, Markings, “To be humble is not to make comparisons.”

I like that definition. It reminds me of what Jesus says in Matthew 18:3-4,

Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. Whoever becomes humble like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.

Have you ever noticed that little children, at least before school age, don’t make comparisons? That is the essence of their humility. But this Pharisee lacks such humility. He is probably comparing and contrasting himself with other people often. What a waste of time! When we spend our lives looking down on others, we can no longer see the One who is above us all, namely, God.

Now, prayer, fasting, and almsgiving were the three main spiritual disciplines for every first century Jew. This Pharisee uses one of these spiritual disciplines (prayer) to boast about how he is doing in the other two spiritual disciplines: fasting and almsgiving. In fact, this Pharisee boasts about how he has gone above and beyond the call of duty in these areas.

For first century Jews there was only one obligatory fast and that was on the Day of Atonement, once per year. Some Jews, like this Pharisee, seemed to think they could earn special merit before God by fasting more often. And so, it was the habit of some to fast every Monday and every Thursday. That’s what this Pharisee did, and he boasts about it.

Now, in Jerusalem in the first century, Mondays and Thursdays were market days. The city would be full of people shopping on those days. Sometimes those who fasted would whiten their faces and wear unkempt clothing so as many people as possible would know that they were fasting. That’s probably what this Pharisee did.

On top of that, this Pharisee boasts about his almsgiving. According to Numbers 18:21 and Deuteronomy 14:22 the Levites (the Israelite tribe responsible for worship in the Temple) were to receive a tithe (10%) of all non-Levite produce. But this Pharisee boasts that he has gone beyond that; he tithes, gives away, 10% of everything he receives.

Now don’t get me wrong. Tithing on your income to give to the poor or the church or both is a wonderful thing. Though tithing is not required by the New Testament, who am I, as a pastor, to say anything against tithing? Our stewardship committee might not mind if I put in a good word for tithing. But that is not what this sermon is about.

Fasting, too, can be a wonderful thing. Prayer can be a wonderful spiritual discipline.

But, here’s the thing… when we begin to boast about our spiritual disciplines, I believe they lose all value and all reality.

Now, lest you think Jesus is giving us a caricature in his portrait of this Pharisee, let me point out that Jesus’ picture here is not atypical of the worst in first century Pharisaism. There is a recorded prayer of a Rabbi that goes like this:

I thank, Thee, O Lord my God, that thou hast put my part with those who sit in the Academy, and not with those who sit at the street-corners. For I rise early, and they rise early; I rise early to the words of the law, and they to vain things. I labour, and they labour; I labour and receive a reward, and they labour and receive no reward. I run, and they run; I run to the life of the world to come and they to the pit of destruction.[2]

Furthermore, it is on record that Rabbi Simeon ben Jocai once said, “If there are only two righteous men in the world, I and my son are these two; if there is only one, I am he!”

I don’t mean to condemn all Jews by this portrait, nor did Jesus. After all, Jesus himself was a Jew. I simply mean to point out that first century Pharisaism had its problems in terms of legalism and pride. But these are not exclusively the problems of first century Pharisees. There have been Pharisaical people in every religion, including Christianity, down through the years, people who have gotten caught up in spiritual legalism and pride.

So, as William Barclay sums up, “The Pharisee did not really go to pray; he went to inform God how good he was.”

The second person in Jesus’ story is a tax collector.

It is difficult for us to imagine today how this story would have sounded to Jesus’ first century Jewish audience. The reason it is difficult for us to imagine is because we don’t view the good guys and the bad guys the same way Jesus’ first audience did. For them, the Pharisee would clearly be the good guy. He is the most religious. He is the guy you would want your daughter to date, and hopefully marry. He’s the one in the white hat.

The tax collector, on the other hand, is the bad guy. He’s the one in the black hat. Haddon Robinson explains…

Whenever Rome wanted to tax a province, it sold the right to tax to the highest bidder. And once a man purchased the right to tax, he was free to take anything the traffic would bear. He usually discovered it could bear a great deal. You couldn’t do business without doing business with a tax collector. You couldn’t move your goods from town to town without stopping by his desk.

As a result, extortion was built into the job; injustice was part of the trade.

So, if we were choosing someone to fill a valued political office, let alone a position on the board of our church, there is no doubt that we would choose the Pharisee over the tax collector.

That’s what makes Jesus’ story so surprising, at least to his first century audience. The guy who Jesus’ first century audience thought was wearing the white hat ends up wearing the black hat and vice versa.

If the Pharisee’s vice is pride, the tax collector’s virtue in this story is humility. Most translations of this story do not do justice, however, to just how humble the tax collector was. A word-for-word translation of his prayer would run like this: “O God, be merciful to me the sinner.” The tax collector did not think of himself merely as “a” sinner but as “the” sinner par excellence.

The Apostle Paul apparently had the same attitude. In 1 Timothy 1:12-17 he says,

I am grateful to Christ Jesus our Lord, who has strengthened me, because he judged me faithful and appointed me to his service, even though I was formerly a blasphemer, a persecutor, and a man of violence. But I received mercy because I had acted ignorantly in unbelief, and the grace of our Lord overflowed for me with the faith and love that are in Christ Jesus. The saying is sure and worthy of full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners—of whom I am the foremost. But for that very reason I received mercy, so that in me, as the foremost, Jesus Christ might display the utmost patience, making me an example to those who would come to believe in him for eternal life. To the King of the ages, immortal, invisible, the only God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen.

As we have seen, the Pharisee compared himself to other people. By contrast, the tax collector did not do that. Rather, he was comparing his life to the standard of God, not to the standard of other human beings.

William Barclay tells the following story…

Once I made a journey by train to England [from Scotland]. As we passed through the Yorkshire moors I saw a little whitewashed cottage and it seemed to me to shine with an almost radiant whiteness. Some days later I made the journey back to Scotland. The snow had fallen and was lying deep all around. We came again to the little white cottage, but this time its whiteness seemed drab and soiled and almost grey in comparison with the virgin whiteness of the driven snow.

It all depends what we compare ourselves with. And when we set our lives beside the life of Jesus and beside the holiness of God, all that is left to say is, “God be merciful to me—the sinner.”[3]

[2] William Barclay, The Daily Bible Study Series: The Gospel of Luke, Philadelphia: Westminster, 1975, p. 224.
[3] Barclay, p. 225.

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